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specialk Mar 31, 2004

I don't know specifics, only experience. When my husband and I were dating, we went to the same congregation, and lived 5 minutes away from each other. We were never in a car alone together, althou...

specialk Mar 31, 2004

Basically, I don't think there should be a limit to how much time you spend together, as long as you are smart about it. I know couples here who, when they were dating, rode alone in cars together ...

beachbum Apr 1, 2004

that is one thing i could never understand...people get so upset over 2 people driving together in a car. no where does it say not to drive together-it says don't go park somewhere and make out. if...

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

AMEN!!!...I cannot stand this..like, i've never paid any attention to the whole "don't be alone in a car w/a girl" thing to begin with - but the mere fact that it'd possibly be an issue if it was brought to certain peoples attention annoys the crap outa me...&, you KNOW these same people who are giving counsle did the same thing when they were our age...bottom line..teens and people in their early 20's are made to look like sex crazed maniacs via some of these principles sometimes, like, life is circumstantial, two people of the opposite sex, being in a car alone, does NOT automatically = boot knocking...it depends on the people involved

perrin perrinOG 2004

Yeah I know it's rather ridiculous escpecially when you've been friends with someone for like 20 years. I mean if you were going to do something I think it would have happened by now. I mean really. People can be so annoying.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

that is so true!!! I've stopped listening to what others say in that regards. i have a male best-freind and we go places alone and some have "talked" its annoying

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

i agree with a lot of this conversation, but come on, sometimes (you see this happen with people who are old and desperate) they one day look at each other and say "we've been friends for 20 years lets change that" and that's life

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

thats true in some case, then there's the cases, like me, that it would be incestuous cuase this friends like a family member

perrin perrinOG 2004

Yes in some situations I do understand it. There are situations where this could be very dangerous but at the same time that's not always the case. Maybe I'm wrong I don't know that's just my 2 cents on the subject.

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

i think perrin is talking more in a situation like mine and his friendship (and like socogal & her friend) we've been friends just about our whole lives so if there was going to be something there it probably would have come up long before now. it's like people make blanket rules about things w/o considering circumstances. perrin & i drove to mtn creek tog. a couple of wks ago. big stinking deal. it would be retarded to drive 1 1/2 in seperate cars. i was just WAITING for someone to say something about it...

perrin perrinOG 2004

Yeah that is pretty much what I was talking about.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

I hear ya & know EXACTLY what you mean!

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