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tinser Sep 16, 2004

i don't get it...i feel like i don't read english, because i totally don't get this journal...can somebody explain it slowly to me?

socalgal Sep 16, 2004

a male and a female are friends. sometimes these good friends hook-up, sometimes they do not. in this entry, gr8heights was wondering if there is a "stop" point from these friends turning the fri...

tinser Sep 16, 2004

like a "we can't talk as much or hang out as much" point?

suchgr8heights Sep 16, 2004

Yes, like that.

tinser Sep 16, 2004

aww, you edited it! haha, it makes more sense now and....i've never really been put in that situation or known people who have...so, now that i get it, i've got nothing insightful to say, haha

specialk Sep 22, 2004

Yeah you have.....didn't you do that to my brother?

kingadrock Sep 22, 2004

I dont like getting involved in conversations like this I just like reading about it. However, if your in the truth and you spend that much time with a member of the opposite sex shouldnt it be wit...

socalgal Sep 22, 2004

this is great and you do make valid points. thank you! there is a problem with brothers not liking me having a guy as a best friend. thats insecurity to me. if he's too insecure to know that ...

suchgr8heights Sep 22, 2004

Well, is there nothing between you two??? You sure? Sometimes other guys are insecure but sometimes it's a good defense mechanism...no one wants to get hurt finding out later you actually were feel...

kingadrock Sep 22, 2004

One problem, your husband/wife, boyfriend/girlfriend SHOULD BE your best friend. If you have a best friend of the opposite sex, thats a great place to start if your looking for someone, half th...

specialk Sep 22, 2004

I agree on that. My husband is by far, my absolute best friend, and vice versa. But what if a girl has a guy best friend for YEARS, and then meets a random guy? She doesn't know yet if she's gonn...

kingadrock Sep 22, 2004

I am not saying you have to give up your best friends for your husband/wife. The original question was "Apparently there's a deadline in which two friends of the opposite sex feel it is time to d...

suchgr8heights suchgr8heightsOG 2003

I love this, what you're saying. Where have you been?? Good use of the "how much more so" lol you're right, I've learned this lesson recently. It takes self-awareness.

So I guess there needs to be discussion on this matter with him...and sort of "where are we going to go from here" and I guess it's not a DEADline because I'm thinking now if the friendship remains as is, there may be check points along the way...until the finish line where he finds someone, or I find someone or we find eachother...

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