The first part is so true. Actually makes me sad 'cause a really great guy could miss out on an awesome girl (spiritual, smarts,funny, independant, sweet etc.) just...because.

The last part I dunno. Recently and very much to my suprise I'm finding there are actually some guys I'd consider good apples, not so rotten definately worth reaching for. ;-)

All I have to say is PAY ATTENTION GUYS/GIRLS!