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ilikebirds Oct 15, 2004

yo this is sooooo NOT happening to me whatsoever. maybe because i'm not invited anywhere. and i just party with Rastachinka and mr. Sergov Stolinaya

reaf Oct 15, 2004

yeah this is not my situation either. Im exactly how life used to be, and have been for a while, just a short second did stupid things go on like this, and only becuase I let it go on like that. ...

juicymango Oct 16, 2004

i guess.. but this doesn't work for me because i just can't "block" people out of my life, i'm just not that kind of person

reaf Oct 17, 2004

you can if its better for you. bad association spoils usefull habits, or in this case drama causeing people spoil useful habits.

reaf Oct 17, 2004

drama is only a part of your life if you let it be apart of your life.

rocksupastar Oct 18, 2004

i dunno about this... i think if youra people person... youll have drama... not because of you, but because its just cause people have issues and if you're around them, you'll get involved too.

reaf Oct 18, 2004

All I am saying is you can avoid it. Trust me. And it has nothing to do with being a people person, it has nothing to do with being insensitive or unfriendly. When your mind is occupied on more i...

juicymango Oct 18, 2004

I think that the reason I needed to vent in this journal is because this hasn't happened in a while and I thought it was over with and I wasn't gonna run into this kind of thing anymore, and it's v...

reaf Oct 18, 2004

yeah

juicymango Oct 18, 2004

plus like, you know how it is, some people just do not want to hang out with their ex's, haha.. or their current other half's ex's .. or WHATEVER. it's annoying... doesn't mean you "get involved" i...

reaf Oct 18, 2004

ha ha, thats just immaturity = petty drama = ignore it, because you can't help the way a person thinks so go about your regular business, can't please everyone, as i have learned

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah but you can't force people to be friends or to hang out, so you have to like, be careful, not to invite the same people over as you normally do, and this is annoying. You can think it's immature and petty but you still have to respect people's wishes and stuff.

reaf reafOG 2002

of course not, but there way of thinking is immature they cant be in the same room because some one else is, cmon, i dont care if your 45 and you think like that, its immature. we are all brothers and sisters we should not feel like that towards each other especially.
If we dont have our christian brother hood what do we have?
what happens if you have to be the ones to help each other out in dire times, will you be able to over come those feelings then , if you cant over come them now?

not that i care about the particular situation you are talking about cause thats anciant already,and has been done since it has been started. but in a general basis to think like that is immature.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

and i wholeheartedly agree with this. I always think "what if i have to live next-door to this person in the new system" haha.. ya know? I don't feel any negative feelings towards anyone. Perhaps that's my problem I'm too nice haha... I don't agree with that way of thinking but if a friend doesn't want to hang out with their girlfriend's ex i'm not gonna force them to haha .. it just becomes a stressful situation i guess... and it becomes stressful because i don't agree with the viewpoint and i wish everyone could just get along.

reaf reafOG 2002

of course.

reaf reafOG 2002

i know i think the same why cant everyone just get along

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