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web-toedchloe Jun 2, 2005

As much as I loved being single, I love being married more. I theorize that maybe when older people ask young singles when they're getting married, it's because those older ones know that there ar...

juicymango Jun 2, 2005

I kinda agree with you but at the same time it makes me cringe when people who have kids ask me "so when are you having kids?!?!?!" because they think it's so wonderful to have kids to me, the p...

fivezero Jun 2, 2005

people swear by their own brand when it comes to everything nowadays. doctors, dentists, stores, products, diet, ways of doing literally anything, etc. it's swell they've found happiness in, i do...

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

yeah i have never gone up to someone who has kids and said "wow don't you wish you never did that? don't you wish you had freedom to do whatever you wanted without having to wipe a baby's butt all day??"

i mean could you imagine??!?!?!

but people who HAVE kids do this to those who don't

haha i know this is a whole other topic but it's a similar principle

web-toedchloe web-toedchloeOG 2001

There's so many parents in our hall with lots of kids that weren't planned. They see us together and say, "Never have kids." Good stuff.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

lol.. that's so saaaaad!!! I love kids, i think they are amazing little human beings and have so much potential - and it makes me SO SAD to see them hurt and abused and sick and dying in this system. I think a lot of kids just don't get a fair chance because of the world we live in, and that's pretty much the #1 reason i don't want to bring any more into this world.

fivezero fivezeroOG 2003

that's what i think about too.

juicymango juicymangoOG 2003

annd this is also kind of why it's actually wise not to get married in this system, because just as kids have a hard time growing up in this system, marriages have a hard time surviving in this system. No matter who you are your marriage is going to be tested and attacked by Satan. And it is harder to maintain your faith when you're not only fighting for yourself but for another person, or even a whole family.

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