and seriously the reason this is happening is because the moment a girl turns 20 and is single everyone looks at her like something is wrong with her when are you gonna find someone, when are yo...
See I don't remember there being any pressure on me to get married when i was single , I duno if that's becuase i just didn't hear it and forgot about it, or no one ever pressured me. I duno. lol
I made more money than Donovan when we got married. He got a job offer on our honeymoon, so we weren't married for long, but still...
I always thought guys just take a little longer to mature and actually want to get married.
I know a lot of couples who the wives actually had more money, my cousin (who got married at 25) made more money than her husband (at the time)... she paid for the whole wedding herself, than he got a job promotion a couple years later and they are about even par... just in time, because she is expecting a baby ASAP...
Several of my aunts dished out anywhere from 10-20,000 for their weddings because the husbands at the time didn't have it...
What do you mean by the comment about guys taking longer to mature and want to get married? Are you saying a lot of immature guys rush into marraige??
No, I'm saying, at least in my opinion, guys take more time to want to settle down. In fact, I've only known a couple guys who got married at about 21-22, and I remember thinking that all of them (except 1) were way to immature. And those are the couples that constantly fight in public now.
Yeah that makes sense... I didnt think about that aspect of it... I can see how guys who didnt want to settle down never really get to grow up, because once you did everything you wanted to do when you are single, thats when you really start taking things seriously and thats when you contemplate about settling down.
If you rush, you could blame your mate as someone who prevented you from having fun in life, or restricted you from really doing what you want in life. Hence the public fighting and the disrespecting of each other, another thing that obviously isnt good for a healthy marraige
Maybe. I actually would like to get married now tho. Only, it might be not until several or more realistically speaking. Especially since I don't have a girl or money. heh