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chuggie Nov 17, 2006

just don't do it

brotherman Nov 20, 2006

I'm like 3 women later. Can't seem to hook any. Need to use a different lure or something.

thatdarngirl Nov 20, 2006

This is kind of off the top of my head...but maybe you're just going about it the completely wrong way. If you're purposefully searching out someone to date and be with...well you're going to keep...

brotherman Nov 21, 2006

I'm trying to be friends first with females and see where it goes from there. What other way are you supposed to do it? It's hard enough for me to meet anyone with two kids. Am I supposed to pla...

thatdarngirl Nov 21, 2006

No, I'm just saying it seems like you're making friends with them with the intent of dating them later. Why not just make friends with..like everyone you can and one of them just might happen to t...

brotherman Nov 21, 2006

Well, technically only I know that. I don't say to them "Lets be friends and date later on".

gizmo Nov 21, 2006

See, you have to tell yourself that your only doing it to make friends too. Otherwise you'll present yourself, (subconsciously, of course), in a way that appears that you're trying to date them la...

brotherman Nov 22, 2006

I guess I need to make myself clearer. I don't go into anything expecting to suck face after a week. I go into it learning about the person and letting it go from there. The last person I hung o...

superhero Nov 27, 2006

yo man that "just be friends" stuff is insanity. it's ok to let a woman know up front, "hey, you might be the kind of person i could be interested in", instead of being like "ohh i want to be frien...

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brothermanOG 2004

Women are complicated creatures. The exploration of them is like trying to find your way through a mine field.

magnum magnumOG 2001

i choose the mine field!

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