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punkprincess Jun 7, 2007

Why can't it be like the old days. Man is introduced to hot woman from another tribe, they get married, have 86 kids, they live happily ever after.>>>>>>>>why you think dating is retarded

brotherman Jun 7, 2007

Because I suck at it.

punkprincess Jun 7, 2007

no i meant, that statement that you made is the reason why you think dating sucks. have a different outlook and it wouldn't "be so dumb" its all about perception. i loved dating (yes there were tim...

toxicgirl Jun 7, 2007

i agree with this. if you are a single brother in the truth it is so much easier. a single sister has a much tougher time-there just aren't as many. maybe you should travel.

g.f.s.rocks Jun 7, 2007

I dont think anyone should travel far distances just to find a mate. If someone does do that, they will have too high hopes and if they dont find anyone their depression and sadness would get worse...

toxicgirl Jun 7, 2007

no, i didn't mean travel far distances. i wouldn't do that, and wouldn't recommend it to someone else. then you look like you are desperate and "on the hunt." but it doesn't hurt to go visit other ...

theremin Jun 20, 2007

Yeh, well, I'm gonna travel far distances & I am on the hunt. There... I said it. A match hasn't arrived right in front of me, so I have to go seeking. I think one can still travel and not be de...

g.f.s.rocks Jun 21, 2007

What area are you from? Because I agree with you the good and available sisters in this area have all been taken, its like a drought. I still believe though that there will be some potentials that ...

fivezero Jun 21, 2007

Pennsylvania, bro. theres tons of them out there. just sitting there. waiting.

g.f.s.rocks Jun 21, 2007

Dude... PA girls are weird no offense to any PA girls, but from my experience they are a little weird... (I mean there are some exceptions, but the majority are weird)

fivezero Jun 21, 2007

ehhh, i'll half agree. you're just used to the girls over where you are. folks from other regions will always think folks in neighboring regions are weird. s'the way it is. stillllll, there...

g.f.s.rocks Jun 22, 2007

I dont fault it, but what you said makes sense. How you are raised and where you are raised makes a huge difference in what qualities or personalities you acquire. And I suppose that this differenc...

socalgal Jun 22, 2007

come to CA there are plenty. lol

g.f.s.rocks Jun 22, 2007

I have been to CA, its a great place... but its too far away from NYC... When you say you have plenty single girls, whats the age range?

theremin Jun 22, 2007

Forget New York City man. You'll have Angel City & Hollywood. What's it about New York that you gotta hang on to? People think I'm weird for wanting to leave this area completely. But, I think ...

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001

Well thats because you dont live less than 20 minutes from the city. NYC could be practically considered a weekly thing for me. I agree with change, but there are certain things you will miss if you move away from this area...

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brothermanOG 2004

Miss what... Paying the outrageous prices for housing? The only thing I'd miss is going into the city for sporting events.

theremin thereminOG 2002

The only thing I really go to New York for is shows. And any proper city has shows. There's a funny experience to relate... One time I got into an argument (not really an argument but like a psuedo-debate) with someone because they didn't see any difference between London and Brooklyn. They were saying like, I don't see why you love London so much, it's everything Brooklyn is.. why don't you just move to Brooklyn. Ummm... no, not at all.

theremin thereminOG 2002

My distance from NYC has nothing to do with it. I drive an hour and 15 minutes one way, 5 times a week for work. It's 52 miles one way. I can go to NYC just as often as the next person. There was a time when I went to NYC every Monday night. Apparently you just like NYC a whole bunch more than I do. haha Which is coo. Everyone has their favourites. If you love NYC that much... than yeh, you should stay near NYC and not move away.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001

Well, I dont know how much I LOVE it. I mean, I would leave it if I had a better opportunity to, but its hard to compare other cities to NYC... I guess its just that Im used to it and its a good way to just clear your mind. You go into the city you walk around and you can just loose yourself and sit back and watch other people... Than you come home and get back to your life...

theremin thereminOG 2002

Guess you gotta evaluate and weigh the options. Personally, I've already decided to move away from this region, as much as the friends in the band are trying to get me to move to Philly (which I almost listened to.. and probably think I'll still be doing). I think the fact is, in my own situation, I can't expect any new girls to move into this area. The new ones that are gonna be moving into the area from this point on, are gonna be married. I highly doubt a single girl around my age is gonna be coming to town.. I live in a place catered to married couples, families, and the aged.. so highly unlikely I'll be seeing any prospects staying here.

g.f.s.rocks g.f.s.rocksOG 2001

As sad as that sounds its true. Its the same in my area too, not many single sisters in my age group will move here... this area is catered for people who can afford to live here and most single sister or brother cant afford it...

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

yeah you do live in an area to where being married is THE THING to do. it seems like you're an outcast if your not married. *this is MY opinion

and being in areas like this you have to be careful cause there are wrong reasons for ones wanting to be married too instead of genuine love ya know.

*again MY opinion

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

everyone should do what makes them happy, not just cuz it's what other people are doing

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

and that is the way it should be....but majority of the time its not.

theremin thereminOG 2002

You're rright. I do feel like an outcast. Don't worry, I'll only marry out of love & only date out of love. Otherwise life will be miserable. So, in the meantime, moving from exciting city to exciting city will be what I do to enjoy life.

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brothermanOG 2004

Glad I'm not the only one that feels like an outcast. Haha... It was funny, when I went to a congregation in South Texas, an elder there was introducing me to all the single sisters. So it definitely depends on the area. Some areas don't have many available brothers. That was one of them.

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