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forrestina Feb 27, 2003

the young people in our hall were counseled not to hug or kiss on the cheek. the elders told us it was inapropriate. it's really hard for me not to do those things because 1 my culture is like th...

beachbum Feb 27, 2003

unless they can show it to you in print in any of the society's publications, it is just their opinion. my sister cong. is like that and they are crazy not to mention seriously unbalanced about thi...

forrestina Feb 27, 2003

i know i asked them if there was an article. it's not like we're groping each other.

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

haha. we used to be friends w/ this guy who would do what we called "the crush and touch" (remember jenn?). He would hug you real tight w/ his arms low and then somehow touch the top of your butt w/ his hands at the end of the hug. that was def hug rape-gross. but we can't let a couple fools ruin it for the rest of us.

forrestina forrestinaOG 2002

no way!! that's not cool. you know what's so cute. my little sister used to do "squeeze your guts out hugs" after the meetings she would stand up on a chair so she could reach people and they would come over to say hi and give her a hug and she'd squeeze em as tight as she could.

jay79 jay79OG 2001

ewwwwww, yea. That was gross.

skaorsk8 skaorsk8OG 2002

i know that guy!! he freaks me out too

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

man, you got the crush & touch too? i doubt you know him but tell me the initials of who you think it is.

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