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juicymango Nov 17, 2003

eww.. i hate babies butts. ewwwwwwww

yodasucka Nov 17, 2003

how do u hate any thing about babies? i love babies... i want one... whos willing to help me achieve this? lol

juicymango Nov 17, 2003

I'm sorry and I don't mean to offend anyone, but I don't find anything cute about babies or children, nor do i ever want one.

yodasucka Nov 17, 2003

lol ok... i accept that

rocksupastar Nov 17, 2003

pssh, i LOVE kids!!! i seriously could have a MILLION of them.... well.. i just mean... as far as WANTS are concerned... i dont know about the ability part... But i LOOOOOVE kids.. sooo awesome

juicymango Nov 17, 2003

that's awesome! I have nothing against people that want kids or have kids hehe :) being a parent is a rough jobbie and I admire people who take on that responsibility. Children are a gift ... a g...

rocksupastar Nov 17, 2003

lol, noo i agree with you... HAHA, imagine ME with kids, aww man, poor kids.. i would feel horrible for them, who would want ME as a dad.. THATS a scary thought. No, kids arent in my planned future...

dgiaimo Nov 18, 2003

They're in my planned future. Finding out that a girl didn't want kids would be an immediate relationship ender for me. In fact, I would probably try to find that out even before we started datin...

thatdarngirl Nov 19, 2003

I don't know if that's a good thing. A lot of girls just don't want kids in this system. Also, to women children pose a threat to any career they want so they may not want kids in their immediate f...

dgiaimo Nov 19, 2003

I know that, and the first point you brought up I can understand. The second I cannot. I do not understand Witnesses (male or female) who actually *want* a career outside the truth. The only rea...

juicymango Nov 19, 2003

it's kinda hard to be a regular pioneer with a screaming infant in the car... for 8 hours a day... kinda hard! And it's hard to be able to afford daycare if only one mate works. And have you SEEN m...

dgiaimo Nov 19, 2003

I wasn't saying that she should be a regular pioneer if she were going to have kids. I was saying that I would understand if a girl didn't want to have kids so that she could pioneer. I wouldn't ...

skaorsk8 Nov 19, 2003

dude..when people have babies..it's like...TAKE TURNS KEEPING THEM HOME! honestly! who wants to see your snot-nosed kid screaming during the meeting, then running around screaming after the meeting...

jay79 Nov 19, 2003

Not that I agree with this, but I know what you mean. There's a child in my hall that's about 4 or 5 (old enough to know how to sit still), that throws THE WORST tantrums I have ever seen or heard ...

dgiaimo Nov 19, 2003

Do you *know* that the parents don't spank the kid, or that it would even help if they did? I remember being spanked quite a bit when I was a kid and it did nothing to prevent me from being the lo...

thatdarngirl Nov 19, 2003

Some kids, obviously the type of kid you were, need to be physically beat into submission. I believe in this beating of children whole-hearetdly and when I have my 100,000,000 asian children I shal...

dgiaimo Nov 19, 2003

I'm not saying that I don't believe in physical correction. I absolutely do. What I'm saying is that it *didn't* work with me. I was just as rude and obnoxious as before.

ekulu Nov 19, 2003

maybe it was a personality defect then. or maybe your parents ddint train you well enough?

dgiaimo Nov 19, 2003

My whole point here is that sometimes it is *not* the parent's fault. My parents did the best they could with this horrible little brat that they had. It was *not* *their* *fault*.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Genetically it may be!

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dgiaimoOG 2003

Okay, that I'll agree with.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

yo what's w/all this stuff they're finding now about how certain personality traits might be due to our genes?...brings up a BIG issue regarding accountability & whatnot....like, what if one person is directly inclined to do something that's wrong, meanwhile there's other people who are naturally inclined not to...should they both be judged by the same standard?

beachbum beachbumOG 2002

of course. just b/c they are more inclined to say kill people or something doesn't make it any better. everyone has control over their own actions and they have to fight inclinations they know are wrong.

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

yeah, i'm not saying serial killers & rapist & child molesters shouldn't be locked up or anything, lol, they should obviously have no contact w/society....twas just a passing whim

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

Well..in Psych we were saying how it's not exactly Personality that is in the genes, because environment can effect that BUT temperment is definetly there from birth. Like, if you're grouchy at 1..you're grouchy at 20.

tinser tinserOG 2002

but personality is partially in the genes...i'm a big fan of the 50/50 environment to genes ratio

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002

I think that genes determine what you are inclined to be but that environment has a bigger effect on it.

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