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classic1 Feb 19, 2004

I was in my late teens. I saw her at a congregation picnic. When I saw and spoke to her, I felt someting that I never felt before. I had no game, just corney conversation. I left the picnic without...

socalgal Feb 19, 2004

you little sneaky person you! =)

classic1 Feb 19, 2004

See I think that's my point. Love can drive you to do things you wouldn't ordinarily do.

dgiaimo Feb 19, 2004

I don't know. I doubt anything could get me to do what you did.

classic1 Feb 19, 2004

I feel the fire, I am melting in my chair...

dgiaimo Feb 19, 2004

Is that a quote from somewhere?

classic1 Feb 19, 2004

no, i mean your comments shot fire at me. You sounded like "What you did was awfull, How could you? I would never do such a thing"!

dgiaimo Feb 19, 2004

Interesting. That's not what I meant. I think it's great that you had the guts to do that, and to be able to ignore the possible consequences. I don't and can't.

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classic1OG 2004

Now that i'm older, I couldn't or wouldn't use spirtual or organizational stuff for my own pesonal benefit. I'm sure it's a ton of stuff that we all did in the past that we wouldn't do now. I agree with you.

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dgiaimoOG 2003

Yeah. Actually what I'd be most concerned about is what other people would think about me calling a girl that I barely knew. I do not want to get the reputation that my brother had.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

well how do you get to know a sister that you barely know? you need to call her right?

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dgiaimoOG 2003

That's a very good point and one that I've been trying to understand for a while now.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

what don't you understand hun? if you're attracted to one, you need to call and get to know them. now you only get a rep if you move from one person to the other without allowing sufficient time....

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dgiaimoOG 2003

What I don't understand is what is considered appropriate and what is not.

thatdarngirl thatdarngirlOG 2002 funny

Don't touch her no-no places and everything should be all right.

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

you're so cute lynz!

ophelia opheliaOG 2003

different people have different no no spots though.....like personally...i'm 100% yes yes....i don't think i have any no no's...

socalgal socalgalOG 2003

Appropriate: call her if your interested and take it from there. It just all flows naturally...

In-appropriate: coming on too strong, jsut be yourself

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dgiaimoOG 2003

Haha. Sorry, but if you knew me you'd know that *nothing* having to do with conversation just flows naturally with me. Oh well, I should stop talking about this subject. I'm getting depressed enough as it is.

thefunkyfresh thefunkyfreshFounder

dont sweat it man, i'm in the same boat as u. never was really natural at that kind of stuff. like talking to girls and such. except i just dont care anymore! yipeeeeeeeeeeee!!! seriously though, its so much smarter to just chill, be friends with everybody, eventually everything will fall into place. right? RIGHT!??!?!?????

definitely true

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