I was in my late teens. I saw her at a congregation picnic. When I saw and spoke to her, I felt someting that I never felt before. I had no game, just corney conversation. I left the picnic without...

you little sneaky person you! =)

See I think that's my point. Love can drive you to do things you wouldn't ordinarily do.

I don't know. I doubt anything could get me to do what you did.

I feel the fire, I am melting in my chair...

Is that a quote from somewhere?

no, i mean your comments shot fire at me. You sounded like "What you did was awfull, How could you? I would never do such a thing"!

Interesting. That's not what I meant. I think it's great that you had the guts to do that, and to be able to ignore the possible consequences. I don't and can't.

Now that i'm older, I couldn't or wouldn't use spirtual or organizational stuff for my own pesonal benefit. I'm sure it's a ton of stuff that we all did in the past that we wouldn't do now. I agree...

Yeah. Actually what I'd be most concerned about is what other people would think about me calling a girl that I barely knew. I do not want to get the reputation that my brother had.

well how do you get to know a sister that you barely know? you need to call her right?

That's a very good point and one that I've been trying to understand for a while now.

what don't you understand hun? if you're attracted to one, you need to call and get to know them. now you only get a rep if you move from one person to the other without allowing sufficient time....

What I don't understand is what is considered appropriate and what is not.

Appropriate: call her if your interested and take it from there. It just all flows naturally... In-appropriate: coming on too strong, jsut be yourself