First Crush
by This is a small variation of Forreste's "Puppy Love" thread... but this one is about real life... I think we are all old enough now to fess up to our first crushes (or maybe not)... I'll start....
I guess I was about 12 or so and I was head over sneakers in love with this kid Richie. I have no clue why cuz when I see him now, he looks kindda like a rat, but no matter, I was 12 and ready for marrage...
Now come on! Fess up!
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my first crush was this girl named ashley in like 3rd or 4th grade. i just remember thinking she was so pretty, but i was a nerd back then
and now you are...not?
no i still am
well you are a dead sexy nerd so i don't think you are a nerd in the true sense..
I luv this!!! Oh Patrick you do make me laugh so :-D
thanks pat :) i'm a nerd trapped in a beautiful body
Sean Patrick Sullivan! Sixth grade, it wasn't stalking it was watching with admiration. In reality I had a new crush every two weeks lol... I know I know what a floosy!
The first girl I had, I guess you could call it a crush, a crush on lasted for about 10 years on and off. How crazy is that?
daaaaaaaaaaaaaang
Yeah seriously.
you know what, i can definitely identify with that.
You had the same thing happen?
NO WAY!!!! that is a long time.
Yeah no kidding. It can be quite frustrating at times.
I also have to add to this that as wierd as this may sound, at least that's what most people say when I tell them this, I've only liked 3 different girls.
dude that is the way it is supposed to be. I mean you don't get many funny stories that way, but there is definitely less heartbreak..
i dont think that necessarily means less heartbreak
Yeah I agree in some cases it may be worse simply because you can't seem to move on and get past it.
eXactly...and those people probably mean more to you, then somebody whose had many relationships
Yeah that's for sure. So it's got it's up sides and it's downs. One upside generally there is more down time between people which can be a really nice time period.
someone WHO'S had.. It's a contraction of WHO HAS, it's not possessive! Sheesh, your eZabel spelling correction priveleges have been temporarily revoked. Sorry to do it to you here, but it must cease until you complete more english classes in college and read more novels like Emma...
I <3 Emma Woodhouse.
you're awesome! you just corrected my grammar! that rocks!
thats not bad at all. at least when you do like someone it's completely genuine....stay that way...true innocent and genuine
true, innocent, genuine and unambitious.
how can it be unambitious?? we don't know what's gone on and he does't need to give details. some lives are not open books.
Ok.
Yeah seriously. I don't get how only liking 3 girls is unambitious either.
dude i'm pretty much the same way... i've only really liked 2 girls in my life. i think guys like us need frontal lobotomies so that we can just move on already :)
seriously i'm fine, but seriously!
no, what is crazy is WHO you had the crush on.
Ok yeah that too. lol. I still can't believe what Andrew said when he finally found out. lol
what did he say?
i think it was some girl named Alicia Aurriemma from 3rd grade. She was into playing piano.
Did you like her because she played piano?
i had a crush on this kid mike in first grade. that started my lifelong obsession with dimples.
awww, i love dimples too!!!
mr. d??
so not...this kid went to the same elementary school with me...back in the old days when there were two elementary schools...mike d was in the other
haha so little for crushes but i loved AG back then myself
ooh...his big brother had the cutest dimples!
whos AG? u had SO many cute guys in ur grade! James and that D guy (Derrick? Audreys cousin?) and Mikey! ... theres def more
summer knows and i'll send you a message. btw audge's cous was damien.
i knew it started with a D!
I had a crush on ian... his flock of seagulls hair doo and thin nerdy pale complexion... oh yes
MAN Mel, ready for marriage at 12? sheesh you started young. i didn't have a full on crush enough to get married until i was 13..
yea, i was an early bloomer.. what can i say?
She was my first love,
descended from heaven above
like an angel with acne
she set my soul free
an she'll always stand tall in my memory
even if she's living in a penitentiary,
sheeeeee was my first love
my first crush was ryan croland. he played hockey. we were in the 5th grade and he made me a kaleidoscope, i still have it in my room.
Ah a hockey player nice!
u r SUCH a loser
ohhhh ryyyaaannn
i think shes lying.. wasn't it brett? and we used to make fun of her saying "brett brett... brett brett" from Full House? haha
lol no that was you and jenna teasing me and christina except i couldn't care less for that skinny brat
hehe jenna hehe he
My first crush was Danee Archipoli. I was best friends with her brothers and I just thought she was so beautiful. I can remember one time her father asked me to baby sit her. They were all going out to a wedding but she wasn't. Now I know what your thinking, but she's only 4 or 5 years younger then me. I thought it was strange myself but I practically lived at their house so I was like a third son to them. I remember feeling so weird because it was just us in the house. If I remember correctly she liked me too but we never did anything. I've kissed her arm while we were laying out in the sun by the pool but that was it. I remember her mom took us to the movies one time and she sat in the back. So I guess she had a crush on me too, we never really did talk about it. I guess I should ask her about it one of these days.
But she ended up telling me she 'didn't like' me anymore one day. She broke up with me in Chess King in Woodbridge Center. I'll never forget that day. We were standing on opposite sides of a clothes rack, her brother was in the change room, and my other friend was standing there too. She said that and they both started dieing laughing. I was crushed. What made it worse was that we had to go to a party that afternoon. I remember sitting in the car running my fingers through her hair wondering how this could have happened. I was probably 14 or 15 at the time.
I still see her occasionaly and we always have a good laugh over it. :)
yea she was so hot. i was in love with her too
She's got two kids now.
one of them should be mine. haha
My first real BIG crush was my husband. I had other little crushes before him, that went away quickly, like after the guy spoke or something. But I really went ga-ga when I met my hubby. I've know him since I was 14, and I've been ga-ga for him since. What is funny is, I had a tiny crush on his cousin first, because I hadn't met Adam (my husband) yet, but once I met Adam, I totally flipped for him. That's my happy story.
mel, i know richi lol i feel for ya, ur child hood was ruined
YES! see, Lisa used to love him too!! what a little heartbreaker...
Should I admit that I think I had a crush on a girl when I was like 4? Her name was Christina Carney and she was maybe a year older than me. They moved out of our congregation to New Hampshire when I was 5, so I don't really remember much about her, just that I really liked her.
This obviously wouldn't be my FIRST crush..but...there's a girl on this past season of Real World who I think I just might be in love with..I'm not enough of a watcher to know her name..but WOAH NELLY
let's take a stab...the one who fits your profile would be mallory--totally tshirt and jeans kinda girl.
Ugh Mallory annoys me. Just punch leah in the face already and get it over with!
i love mallory!!!!!!! she's my favorite. i loved how her and ace were like this. (i'm shaping my hands into a heart.)
I can't wait for the reunion show next week...looks like CT cut his hair and I wanna know if Mallory and Ace are an item. I didn't like Tina(too whiney), or Leah(too mean and arrogant). But I am sad this season is over. At least the gauntlet is still on. ha. mtv addict.
awww, no way! tina was cooool.
she was irritating. she thought she was right all the time. she analyzed the motive for everyone's actions and did nothing cool herself. blah.
whenver you're watching real world & tina starts to get under your skin, just focus on the BEAUTIFUL image of mallory..that should make things all better
she was just awesome and sweet. yeah i'm excited to see if they're a couple cuz i think they are. it was nice to know that leah doesn't have cancer though. i didn't know ace ran three bars!! no wonder he drinks so much. but so exciting for mallory and ace. i loved ace. every episode he just made me crack up in hysterics laughing.
adam and CT both bothered me... i mean i sat there and was like "GO WASH YOUR HAIR!" ugh
see, i liked ct a lot. he reminded me so much of someone i know. he was cool. but adam, i just wanted to tell him to stop macking girls. you are not going to find the love of your life in paris when all you look for is blonde hair. ---(i liked on the last episode where ace says he hopes adam finds the perfect love he has been so desperately searching for because we all know he's trying to find her.)----
Honestly this last season was awesome, CTs hair was soo rowdy, it made me happy everytime I saw it, Ace was drinking all the time so he was funny, Adam had rowdy hair too, Mallory and Christina were hot, Leah started trouble and simon was the token gay man. If there wasnt people startin drama on that show it wouldnt be interesting and nobody would watch it. I love real world!
Did anyone notice that Simon was the only roommate who showered before he left for home...bunch of dirtbags
I was in love with Simon! I think he was the best in the house. He tried to be friends with everyone and be reasonable even though everyone was being all mean to him about the War in Iraq thing.
I HATED NEARLY EVERY PERSON on this new Real World. the only ones i remotely liked was Ace, Simon and Tina. Mallory is definitely overrated. A selfish brat lush teeny bopper. Lea needs a drano milkshake--zonk. Adam--is immature and has unresolved issues. CT is a total loser, boneheaded selfish trouble-maker. i just keep hearing him say "i will work you. work you. i will dog you, dog!" ugh. the only thing appealing was the locale and some of the antics were entertaining. NEXT!
yeah, yeah, the POINT is mallory is beautiful...
YES!!!..THAT'S IT!!!..she's beautiful, o my GOOODNESS...Leah needs to like drink a bottle of bleach & die though, she's so freakin obnoxious
DO YOU KNOW WHY SHE IS SOOO ANNOYING? SHE IS FROM LI! that's why. me and my bro were trying to figure out why she was such an annoying....and that was the reason...
excuse me? what does THAT mean?
it means there is a high percentage of annoying women from LI, like 75-90%...
Paul McCartney. Still.
Only about two years ago did I realize that he was old. He really isn't all that wrinkly. However, reality hit me and I've moved on.
he still is in excelllent shape for a 61 y.o guy. No meat I guess.
i have a major crush on him
wow, i feel so glad to hear this...i used to think i was some kind of freak who liked old guys.
i love marlon brando from back in the day. like guys and dolls era. simply stunningly good looking. i just melt.
or even seal. even though he's not old at all i alway classify him in an older category.
yo i have guys and dolls, we should get a viewing of that...
yes! i haven't seen that movie in ages.
I'm one for brando from "Streetcar named Desire" hes the original Vin Diesel, he just flips out all the time, its awesome
no way...hello! paul newman.
My Rachel (16) loves Phil Collins (!) and Richard Gere!!
my first crush was when i was seven and the crush still lasts but I can't say who.
hmmmmmm, you owe me, uh, uh........a cheesecake to keep quiet. mmm cheesecake
really???? you can't say???? wow, now i'm curious! who in the world could it be???? i know your little secret. it's on now! i know where you live!!!
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my first crush was the most beautifull creature in the whole world her name was betty. Long black hair great body and wonderful eyes. I first met betty at the petting zoo sittin all alone there in her cage i felt so bad for her that sweet little goat not a freind in the world but i saw the goat inside of her and the goat i knew she could be. so there ya go.
yea... babe.. u have issues.. i suggest u find help... soon
man i had a crush on some girl from 5-? Anyway, nicole keppel the only natural light blonde haired woman i have ever liked....she was from kindergarten...
my first crush was in 1st grade when this boy jason passed a love note to my friend for her to give to me since i was going to her house that nite. to this day i still enjoy the boy name of jason.
i had TWO at once in third grade! Megan Gleesan and Angela Ordinez! i'd follow one around before lunch and the other after lunch. and DURING lunch?! i was chasing both of 'em! when i wasn't playing DODGEBALL.
dude dodgeball was the best game in the world
i love it too. i used to wreck people. and i'd get wrecked now and then. good times.
We should play that one day. It would get way violent and out of hand!
haha yes,,, a huge eZabel dodge ball game... that would be freaking awsum!
Everyone must attend..if you don't..well, you'll be sorry!
this reminds me of the Dexter's Lab episode hehe.
yes who ever doesn't attend.. we will track down.. and hit... with dodgeballs... haha
So you will end up involuntarily playing with us anyways!!!
yea... so theres no point in not showing up haha
Growing up in Florida my first love was Rebecca Smith she was my best friend from the time I was 3 until I moved to Jersey 6 years later. Two years ago, she moved to Pittsburgh. I went to see her in December and, we have been together since.
this story makes me want to freakin PUKE. sheesh. GET OUT THERE, MAN! there's a ton of awesome girls out there that have never seen you cry when your mom spanked you. start lookin, son!
shut up dan.. that is the cutest story ever...
he jealous cause hes got nobody.
(Touche. Like it?)
coo coo.... coo coo...
Your comment explains a lot about you Dan...
hm.. really? how so??
What do you mean?
Wow, I am suprised this explaining. It was just sarcasm. BUT it was one of those "your response explains why your single" kinda things.
haha ok so i read that wrong... when i read it i thought u said "taht explains a lot and u AND dan" so i was asking what u ment.. but now that i read it right, i understand,,, and i agree with u, dans comment TOTALLY shows why hes single LOL
he's a nice, respectable, smart and bitter lad
I'm not bitter,I HATE YOU ALL, not bitter at all.
dude he was calling ME bitter.
hahaha...I am officially burying the taco hatchet. please, why can't we all just be bestest friends?
yeah, BFF. whatever happened to that? now dan is off bitterly gyrating himself on tacos.
i was best friends with tony kanal. YOU were all busy being best friends with each other, as i remember it! long live No Doubt!
there's actually a story behind this. we went to a party, and brian and toxicgirl were there, and this guy who looked exactly like tony kanal was there too. and i tried to be his friend. and he snubbed me, and brian laughed at me.
Ya know what!? Brian and I were invited to a party while Sal was here...it was at Tony Kanal's house! Lotsa people were there and after the ball dropped, his wife told us we had to leave cuz there wasn't enough room for us. We got snubbed by Tony Kanal's wife!!!
tony's not married.....or is it the look-a-like tony??
AMEN<<<<<< brother!
so dan who u with right now?
thats makes u want to puke wel dan tell me who are with right now i forgot.
awww, that's sweet, and i thought she was just some hoochie you picked up....I mean....
Crap, you caught me. How did you know?
Lucky guess.... Thanks for telling her I said that at the assembly. Im sure she doesn't hate me now, Was it payback for the tulip thing?
Wait rebecca smith? the girl i dated for 3 years when i was in florida!.. ahh she was nice!
My first crush was a girl from Kindergarten, we were the King and Queen of the steel Igloo thing at the playground and we had servants and everything. I still remember her name... Megan Fischer from Teaneck.... the good old days... I wonder what she is doing right now hmmm...
why not just google her and find out?? i'm sure she's on ezabel..perhaps she's "omegatweeter"
hey, dandelion, hush the boca.
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAH, dandelion! man, where do you get this stuff?
i dunno lol just random stuff in my head.
i wrote about this recently on ezabel..my first crush was when i was 5..on a 15 year old guy.
but my first REAL REAL crush was jordan kaufman when i was 9...age 9-11..i was in love w/ him.
oh, you reminded me that my first crush was probably justice....cause you and jordan danced, and justice and i danced...but i didn't really have a crush on him...everybody just said we were cute together...so i just went with it
aww yeaaaaaa! at dee's wedding!! i remember that..that was the first time i slow danced w/ a boy! aw..i remember that pic your mom had of you and justice on your piano for the longest time...i think i still have the pic of me and jordan.
this guy who lived in my neighborhood...he was so perfect...he was really nice, cute, athletic, and we were tight...jahanna, that's the kid who lives up on ridge...remember when we drove past his house? haha
I guess i was in preschool... I went to a catholic pre-school , believe it or not.. and On our birth days.. the teacher would pull us up on this little stage thingie.. and give us light slaps on the butt for however many years old we were.. and i dont know.. after that day.. i always loved that teacher.. i was naughty boy. I totally wished i was MORE THAN 4 years old at the time... 89 would have been good.
I don't think anyone will EVER have to wonder why you have secured the #1 perv spot for life.
This boy Mark, who in kindergarten used to sit on my winter hat and fart on it. By 5th grade he was really cute.
hahaha richie. i think his uncle brent and also jason were two of my firsts. i used to watch them mow the girls lawn with popcorn waiting for them to take their shirts off!! ahhh the good ol days.